智者说话,是因为他们有话要说;愚者说话,则是因为他们想说

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柏拉图有一句名言:“智者说话是因为他们有话要说;傻瓜说话是因为他们想说。”

每个人都可以说话,但不是每个人都知道该说些什么,不该说什么。

所有人都说他们会失败,真正的智者从不说这五个字。

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少谈废话是一种美德

在过去,一位同事是一位“发言人”,很长一段时间都可以说一件小事。

你问了他一件事,他说了很多,他没有给你留言;

你正在努力工作加班,但是他在你周围晃动,你会被问到你是否很忙,你在午餐时吐痰太糟糕了;

你和他谈过工作。他从乔布斯那里得知松下由纪佑有很高的评价,但他交出的最后一件事并没有舔他的嘴唇.

蔡康永曾吐出这样一个人:

“早餐”和“口才”是两回事。与一个窃窃私语的人一起度过一个小时是非常沉闷的;但如果你和一个喋喋不休的人一起度过十分钟,你就会想要互相残杀。

这些话并不可怕。可怕的是废话是一个口号,没有任何说法。它消耗你自己的能量和他人的时间。

真正聪明的人说话整齐而尖锐。

他们不喜欢掩饰,转身,只是说些什么,只是给你准确的信息;

他们不容易表达自己的意见。他们在说话之前一定要周到。

这种语言比一种语言更昂贵,麻雀数千次,而不是像雄鸡那样响亮。

If you have time to say some nonsense nonsense, it is better to sink your heart and do the things at hand, so that what you say is more valuable.

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Not talking about words, it is a kind of education

Is there such a person around you, his mouth is more poisonous than a snake, and he says that he is just a straight man.

You bought a new dress, she said that the fat man in this dress is not good-looking, so that your good mood will come to an abrupt end;

The boyfriend gives you a gift, you see it as a treasure, but she said that it is worth a few dollars, not as good as her boyfriend;

When you are promoted and raised, she is sour and slick in the back, adding to you.

If you are not happy about this, she also said that you are stingy.

Good words, three winters, and bad words hurt people in June.

A mean word, it seems insignificant, sometimes it is more embarrassing than a knife, but it sweeps people's happiness, but it hurts people's hearts.

Remember, the poison tongue is not humor, but a mouthful; it is not straight, but not educated.

A well-educated person will definitely consider the feelings of others and make them comfortable.

When you are better than him, he does not say gossip; when he is better than you, he does not say anything big to show off; even if there is a misunderstanding between you, he will not say bad things that are unfounded.

Those who speak harshly will only become lonely people who are disgusted by everyone; those who speak comfortably can make more friends and gain more love.

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Not easily promised, it is a kind of respect

《史记》There is an allusion: "It's better to get a gold jin, it's better to have a season."

It is a person named Ji Bu who has a letter and a letter. As long as he has promised something, he will do whatever he wants. His promise is worth more than gold.

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遗憾的是,坚持像吉布这样的承诺的人越来越少。

我经常听到有人在酒桌上谈论它。我会说我的项目是数千万。我会说我知道哪个名人很大,我有所帮助。

如果你真的向他寻求帮助,他会轻拍他的胸部并承诺让你感到安心。结果,你等了很久,仪式也送了很多,但他后来悔改,让人开心。

其他人在借钱的时候说,他们支付了工资并立即归还了你。后来,如果你不提这个,他会忘记它;

你曾经帮助过他,他说你必须在第二天吃一顿大餐,然后就不会有了.

这些似乎很小,但经过很长一段时间,他们会慢慢透透一个人的可信度。

那些喜欢吹嘘的人总会吹牛皮;那些撒谎的人最终会撒谎。

如果你答应说出来,那就别忘了。最好不要在开始时达成一致;如果誓言可以随便打破,那么这个人就不值得相信。

古人说:“没有承诺不轻,所以我不对人负责;承诺不可信,所以人们不忍心。”

承诺,而不是吹牛,不仅要尊重他人,还要尊重自己,这并不容易。因为您的承诺是您最好的名片。

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不争论,这是一个思想开放的

有时候,我们经常会遇到一些让人烦恼的无意义的争吵。

我记得当我上大学时,有一个新同学的晚餐。服务员送了一个水果盘。有人说这是葡萄。另一个人立刻跳起来纠正它是一个葡萄干。

你说一句话,两个人不愿意表现出弱点,从争论什么是水果,上升到攻击对方无知和缺乏质量,使得晚餐不开心。

Later, when I had a meal, I never called the two people.

People who are narrow-minded and short-sighted, like to argue with others.

They are arguing for a bite, and a little bit of sesame is going to hold on. I am not arrogant, I am unreasonable to stir up three points, and I have wasted a lot of time and energy, but I can’t argue for it.

Lincoln has said:

Anyone who is determined to achieve something will never spend time in private arguments. The results of the debate, including temper tantrums and loss of self-control, are unfortunately unaffordable. Instead of arguing with the dog, it is better to let it go first. Otherwise, even if you slaughter it, you can't cure the bite you are bitten.

Summer worms can't speak ice, and frogs can't speak the sea.

Never argue with people at different levels, because that will only consume you and make the other person call more.

People who know you don't have to argue; people who don't know you, it doesn't matter how to argue.

Not everyone is worthy of your explanation. Instead of trying to convince others, it is better to concentrate on yourself.

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It’s wise to talk less,

I often hear people sigh, people are hard to measure, it is really difficult to be a man.

Just like my cousin, I just joined a company colleague after I graduated from work. They have dinner together and work overtime, almost nothing to talk about.

The cousin felt that her colleague was like a big sister and told her everything. My own love troubles, some opinions on leading colleagues, what to say when I think of something.

Unexpectedly, this colleague turned around and told these words to others.

The leader began to be cold to the cousin, and other colleagues often pointed to the cousin. In the end, the cousin was really unable to stay in the company and had to resign.

xx俗话说,交流浅薄而深刻。大多数人际纠纷都是因为不值得的人说出了他们不应该说的话。

每个人只说了三点,而不是全部。

不要像祥林,人们说它们不容易就不容易。其他人只会看你的笑话;

不要愚蠢和甜蜜,把你的心和话说出来,这不是坦诚,而是愚蠢。

如果你不理解别人的心,那么管理你的嘴。

不是每个人都能对你有同感,不是每个人都愿意为你保守秘密。在你心中,请只对那些值得信赖的人说话。

这不仅是明智的,也是对自己负责的。

《蔷薇园》有一种说法:“最好不说话而不是说什么,最好保持沉默而不是保持沉默。”

说话是一个大学问题,值得一辈子生活。

无论是工作还是男人,傻瓜都会用嘴说话;一个聪明人用头说话,一个聪明人用他的心说话。

愿我们都能成为一个能说话的聪明人,一个懂得沉默的聪明人。共勉。